Navigate Holiday Gatherings with Your Mobility Device

Winter brings joyful gatherings, from holiday dinners and concerts to festive parties. If you’re navigating these occasions with a cane, walker, power chair, or scooter, you might feel unsure about how to make the most of these special moments. This guide will help you confidently enjoy any event with your mobility device and make lasting memories.

Benefits of Attending Winter Events for Seniors

Participating in social events is essential for your mental health and wellbeing. Connecting with others can combat loneliness, stimulate your mind, and reduce depression and anxiety. Events and celebrations also strengthen your sense of purpose and belonging, especially when sharing traditions with friends and loved ones.

If you have grandchildren or great-grandchildren, you already know how magical it can be to see holiday events through their eyes. Whether you’re joining the family to watch a community play, attending church gatherings, shopping, or going to a holiday potluck, your mobility device is here to help you enjoy these experiences comfortably and safely.

How to Get Comfortable with Your Mobility Device

Feeling confident with your mobility aid makes holiday outings smoother. If you’re new to using a cane, walker, power chair, or scooter, take time to practice and get to know the device before attending a crowded event.

Get comfortable with starting, stopping, and turning so you know what to expect. If you’re using a power chair or scooter, learn how to use the horn and backup functions to let others know you’re moving.

Power chairs and some scooters allow you to drive right up to tables to seamlessly join celebrations. Depending on the model, you may need to move the armrests or swivel the scooter seat. Get to know your specific mobility device and try using it in various spaces so you’re prepared to easily navigate social events.

Some walkers include built-in seats so you can easily sit down and take a break when needed. This can be invaluable when out walking, shopping, or running errands. Be sure to dress appropriately for the weather in your area if you plan to spend time outdoors. Gloves with grip padding allow you to easily use controls and brakes when it’s cold.

Preparation helps you focus on what truly matters: spending quality time with friends and family. Once you’re confident using your device, it’s time to think about the event itself.

Accessibility Questions to Ask Before You Go

Communicating about your mobility device ahead of time can reduce day-of awkwardness for you so you enter the event feeling confident and comfortable. It also gives your host time to ensure that the space is accessible and enjoyable for everyone.

Be upfront about your mobility needs when accepting invitations. Ask questions about the accessibility of the home or venue. If you’re attending an event in an ADA compliant space such as a concert hall, you’ll have access to nearby parking as well as bathrooms large enough to accommodate your mobility device. If you’re attending an event at someone’s home, inquire about nearby parking, bathroom access, stairs, and seating arrangements.

Here are some questions to ask or research before attending an event with your mobility device:

• Are there stairs or ramps?
• Is there enough space to maneuver your mobility device safely?
• Are there accessible bathrooms?
• Can you park near the entrance or be dropped off?
• Will you stay in your mobility device or need a chair?

If accessible seating is available, book it when purchasing tickets. Event websites often have an accessibility page, or you can contact the venue directly to learn more about any mobility accommodations available. Some venues may offer priority entry lines or ask you to go to a specific entrance to more easily accommodate your mobility device.

Depending on the event you’re attending, there may be additional accommodations to make your experience more enjoyable. For example, if you have a hearing aid you may be able to sit in the front of the venue or a reserved section for a better view. Some venues offer assistive listening systems. Learn how to use your hearing aid’s settings. Many offer settings to help suppress unwanted background noise while focusing on things you want to hear, such as a person talking or a performance you’re attending.

Tips for Comfort, Confidence, and Connection

A little planning can ensure that you have a great experience. Bring any necessary accessories for your mobility device, such as chargers for powered devices. Keep snacks, water, and medication on hand so they’re available if needed. Traffic and weather can be unpredictable, especially during the winter months, so having your essentials around can reduce stress and hassles for you and your loved ones.

You can use Google Street View or venue maps to get an idea of where you’re going. Advance planning can make it easier for you to comfortably navigate the event.

Focus on the social aspect of the event you’re attending, not your mobility device. Your walker, power chair, or scooter is there to assist you so you can have a great time. Ask a trusted loved one or caregiver to help you navigate any tricky thresholds or tight spaces as needed when visiting homes with mobility aids. You may also want to request that they stay nearby (not hovering!) in case you need assistance.

Making the Event Enjoyable

If you’re attending a party or dinner, come prepared with conversation starters to make it easy to strike up a conversation. You might ask about hobbies, favorite family traditions, or something about the event itself.

Arrive early to give you time to find accessible entrances. This also allows you to settle in and get comfortable without having to navigate crowds. Position your seating for easy access and visibility.

If you’re attending an event at a venue with access services, use them for a more enjoyable experience. For example, a dedicated accessible entrance or priority line can help you avoid waiting in a long line. Take breaks as needed to avoid overexertion and make sure to stay hydrated.

After the event, consider what went well and whether you’d like to make any adjustments for the next social outing you attend. 

Stay Comfortable and Connected

Mobility devices should never be a barrier to connection. Instead, they offer the support you need to attend events and enjoy your favorite traditions. Proactive communication with your host and a little planning can help you have a stress-free experience.

With a little planning and the right mindset, your mobility device can open doors to more joyful moments this holiday season. Start planning to attend your next gathering today!